Ashes Pendant Gold with Lapis Lazuli

A piece of jewellery that holds what words cannot

You are looking for a way to keep the memory of someone you loved close, without it feeling like a constant reminder of loss. This gold ashes pendant with Lapis Lazuli does exactly that. It connects you, every day, to the bond you shared, in a way that is both discreet and deeply personal.

Gold and Lapis Lazuli: two materials with real character

The pendant is crafted in gold, with a collar setting that holds a deep-blue Lapis Lazuli stone. Lapis Lazuli is one of the oldest gemstones in the world, prized for centuries for its intense colour and the natural flecks of gold-toned pyrite running through it. That pairing of deep blue and gold is not a coincidence: it is a material that carries a natural richness and quiet authority. Gold as a precious metal demands skilled setting and finishing, and you see that in the way the collar holds the stone precisely in place.

Carrying the connection, not the loss

After a cremation or burial, many people choose to keep a small amount of ashes, a lock of hair, or a little soil from the grave in a memorial piece they can wear. For a great many people, wearing something like this has a genuinely positive effect during and after the grieving process. You are not carrying the loss with you. You are carrying the connection.

What is included with this pendant

The pendant arrives as a complete set, ready to wear. It includes the gold memorial pendant with collar setting and Lapis Lazuli stone, along with a 42 cm necklace chain. The small inner chamber is suitable for holding a little ash, a lock of hair, or a pinch of soil from the grave.

Personalisation options

If you would like to make this piece entirely your own, engraving is available. A name, a date, or a set of initials makes the difference between a beautiful piece of jewellery and one that could belong to no one else.

Wearing it every day

Gold does not oxidise, which makes it well suited to daily wear. Lapis Lazuli sits at 5 to 6 on the Mohs hardness scale, which means the stone can scratch if it comes into contact with harder materials. Store this pendant separately from other jewellery, ideally in a soft pouch or a small box. Avoid prolonged contact with water, perfume, and cleaning products, as these can affect the depth and intensity of the blue over time. With straightforward care, this piece will look as it should for many years.

Caring for your pendant

Keep it away from harder jewellery that could mark the stone. Remove it before washing, swimming, or applying fragrance. Store it in a soft pouch or its own small box when not being worn. These simple habits will protect both the gold and the colour of the Lapis Lazuli for the long term.

If you have a question about filling the pendant, personalisation, or anything else before you order, please do get in touch. We are happy to talk it through at your own pace, so that everything is right before it arrives with you.